I have to say that while I posted in , I know there are many other people out there who are in much more dire situations than me. Hi, I am a 27 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend. Consumer 1 Posts: 22 Joined: Mon Mar 10, 2014 3:51 am Local time: Thu Feb 28, 2019 7:16 pm Blog: first of all, 22 isnt anything special, a lot of guys passes that age before they get a gf. Why would I lie about being such a loser in love? I'm a very nice guy I admit that, but at what cost? So never make women the centre of your attention. Losers idiots who only want sex and weird people. If something can happen then eventually it will period.
A lot of people try and just end up injuring themselves in some way without the desired results. I secretly have revolutionary thoughts, aspirations even, and I secretly desire to influence people to help to make a change for the better, but I can't speak in front of crowds at all. So it was tough on me leaving school because you were really special to me. But if it makes you feel any better. I mean, I once had a dream in which I woke up like any other morning, got out of bed, and looked at myself in the mirror. Basicly, improve your chances, hit the gym, improve your posture. Hell, I think I would pay 5 grand just for a girl to go out on a couple dates with me and give me a chance to win her over What do you guys I think I should do? If they wanted you they could have you.
But, this thread really applies to me, and I'm in my 50's. Going to work 9-5, and working out is boring. I have met guys via Internet, in person and otherwise. This might all sound over the top to you, but knowing you have the perfect environment to entertain a lady friend at home will give you a huge boost of confidence. I know how happy a mother feels when her son has a girlfriend, i have seen my friend's mother's happiness, they seem soo proud that their sons have a girl. The only time I know for certain when a girl is interested in me is when they are overly forward with it.
Nobody can tell you how each and every individual woman likes to be approached. Surely, you have a dear friend who has been privy to your relationship woes. Hence the controll issues or communitions in the relationship. But now he is married to a very nice woman. Others are poor in love, neither a choice, nor an attitude issue.
By the way I tried contacting her on Facebook a few days ago, but she hasn't responded yet. Kids and adults can be very crule. Women are always secretly waiting for someone to tell them what to do. And I don't recall fantasizing about 40 year old women when I was in my teens. People say it exists, people say it doesn't exist. Does she actually know your name? One of my friends ended up marrying a guy that I was interested in first who asked me to introduce them.
Yet I found myself wondering what was wrong with me because there is this total disconnect I experience from my peers — they are excited about having babies and getting married and it all seems so foreign to me. If you avoid eye contact, treat girls politely but not invitingly, etc. But in college I was able to reinvent myself and start fresh. People just give me some kind of a solution, may be suicide, tell me some way i could end all this unhappiness and this distress,Some quick way to die I do not smile anymore i do not laugh anymore all i do is watch comedy shows and try to laugh like an idiot hoping to feel some happiness through comedy. I am really puzzled because I have never met any men like that in real life. What I mean is don't think of girls as a whole different species who are completely different from men.
After 55 most men are no longer even datable. They saw you as lower status and lost interest because you were always the one pursuing them. I am so ashamed of myself and one thing I would love to be is a good caring kind person above all the things I could be. So now we got these two things out of the way. To them my answer is you are hanging out with misfits.
You take it like it defines you or makes you learn, grow, and keep going until you meet a woman that is into you. I am sure she is a lovely person, she just needs to believe it about herself! The so call bullying came from dudes not girls. With only a couple of my sunday's best suit. I wasn't planning to talk about the girl, but I did apparently. I am skeptical that looks are the issue since most relationships I have seen, the woman almost always looks better than the guy. It doesn't have to be all at once. Or are we only talking about a dozen.
Like you, i never portray myself as a lover but more like an outsider. You lack the courage of your convictions. I think there is someone out there for you,possibly that young lady who seems interested would be a good place to start. I met my boyfriend by surprise; he was enrolled in the community college course I taught. Consumer 5 Posts: 104 Joined: Thu Aug 26, 2010 5:17 pm Local time: Thu Feb 28, 2019 10:16 pm Blog: I'm not going to give some long winded lecture but I will say I was once in a similar situation and out of the blue I did find a girlfriend that I'm still with and it was worth the long time being single.
However after some years I felt comfortable talking and made few friends. Was it because they are shy and do not approach women they dont know or is it that they do not put much effort into finding women. Well, until a few months ago it's been really annoying me, but since the last few months it started feeling really bad. They are wired to be positive against all facts and all odds and in the face of all reality. At the sametime, dont over dress. Yes this might be mean, but who knows you might end up liking her.