That twin knows how to make her happy. But ever since I can remember my youngest two sisters have been treated better than me. You seem to be a good daughter, it's your mom that needs to learn. She's not getting everything over you, you just need to speak up. My brother was being a brat to me; he kept hitting and kicking me. Or go like 'Oh, what scholarships did you get again? I absolutely go mental because my child cries and asks what she has done wrong and she is only 7.
Some days I still feel that way. This is the most important point, because ultimately, the only person who can help you get through really hard relationships to your family is you. The one thing i can never forget is when i followed her to an work interview, i overheard her saying that she only has 2 daughters and she mentioned my stepsisters names. But hes got everything my mother can give. Don't let it get to you, you may think that your mom favors your sister but I'd bet if you asked your sister, deep down, she feels that your mom loves you more for different reasons. I just feel like my family hates me.
I have a older sister too and when we get into arguments, it always seems like my mom takes sides, especially with her. Getting low grades haunt me forever, my parents never let them go, and they expect me to get 100s everytime. Such as your sisters and brothers or even your uncles and aunts. I cared about getting the hell away from her. If you have any concerns about your own health or the health of your child, you should always consult with a physician or other healthcare professional.
Life can be tough and mean - people get sick, people die, tragedies happen. These people, who are your family are dangerous. I do not like emotional 'splurge'. She never hugged me or even touched me unless hitting me with a belt. The tell her that they gave up on her and are always putting her down.
On my sisters birthday, she gave her a cd of me and my sisters favorite band! They expect more out of her as the older sibling and sometimes blames her when i do something wrong. Now, its gotten to the point where I try not to let what they say bug me when it hurts, oh it hurts a lot. She stormed out of my home and as she left, told my 14year old she was sorry she had to live with such a crazy liar like me. Was taking care of my sisters dog and cat for two and a half months. And for parents to openly flaunt this, I mean, how can clothes even begin to compare with a trip to South America? You can't force a change on someone. Anyone who would give me advise? My husband, a teacher too, has several masters degrees and is a high school principal working towards superintendent licensure.
Mothers can be strange, and in this case, I have a feeling it's just a mindset she has - and she most likely wouldn't have a change of heart any time soon, especially if she explicitly told you she doesn't like you. This site is published by BabyCenter, L. My sister is married to a very successful man. Moms and daughters can go get a mocha and go out to lunch together. They are treating you a certain way, so you have learned how to respond in kind. If they are feeling unloved and treated unequal, than they are.
What i find to be helpful is to stay on ur mom's good side. By twins I really mean they were identical - both girls, both were hard to tell apart. And they will hurt you till you get away. My sister always got the hugs, the cutesy nickname and whatever else she wanted. He always takes my side on fights. And my little sister is the one they choose to use all their sympathy and time on. My husbands family is even worse if you can believe that.
Why some of you have your own kids and let them around them are beyond me. My mother had the joke on me though, because she favored the other grandchild , a boy , over my daughter, giving him 20,000 for school and her nothing. I tell you this because I been through it, know the feeling and finally picked my self esteem off the floor and left my mom alone. . My own mother out on gun on me and my sister… Was going to kill us. So now i have 2 younger stepsisters. There are so many times in my life my mom has hurt me in similar fashion.