Biting remarks and snappy comebacks are just the witty repartee to keep the spark between you in your relationship. Respect leads to trust and friendship. You have to make sure that you are a girl that he is actually able to trust and believe in. Who has the greatest influence on her? At the end of the day, all women crave more or less the same qualities in men. Guys like a girl who laugh at their jokes, but isn't mindless and isn't always serious about everything.
This makes them more approachable. That means that you will always be able to challenge him to grow and become better. In other words, is he teachable? A man worth pursuing is a man who seeks after God on a daily basis. Vulnerability starts from day one. The way she does certain things becomes the way he does certain things. Not just about how their day went or other mundane topics. Respectability You always need to make sure that you are someone who is respectable and noble.
Yet, actions are and always have been the most powerful forces on the planet. If you are not committed then there will always be that little doubt in the back of her mind asking if you are really serious about the relationship. I know it sounds counter-intuitive to the first point, but I like a little shock value now and then. And you should know that you always have a shot at making any guy fall in love with you. When it comes to making important decisions, women expect men to be in charge and to make the right moves. God does not view careless and idle words as something of little consequence.
So a woman by herself is likely to meet a man by himself. Is he secure in his educational level when compared to you? Babysitting a stage five clinger? You might know you want a man with a certain religion, a man who is healthy and active, or a man with a strong connection to his family. And you appreciate doing things spur of the moment. You must always try to keep things real with him. You want to make sure that you are someone who can actually fend for yourself in this harsh world. All you need to do is make a good faith effort to be a ; improving gradually in all of the above areas.
This leads me to my next quality to look for. What are a few traits of character that a Christian woman should strive to attain? No matter how good or how bad the situation is she always finds a negative. He Tells You He Loves You Although He Doesn't Really Have To — You Can Feel That He Loves You Words are great — I make a living using them. This isn't to say that they won't one day be, but every man is the wrong man for you at some point in his life or another. As clichéd as it is, some men want to be caretakers.
Does he manage his money well regardless of how much he has? And hey, isn't laughter the best aphrodisiac? Keep things open and honest in your relationship. Take any average Joe and throw in some Iron Chef-inspired cooking skills and he gains at least two points. People get divorced for many reasons including finances, a lack of communication, a lack of passion and compassion, infidelity and overall dissatisfaction. There are many characteristics that make a man a great man. I don't take this incredible blessing lightly and I'll never take her for granted. Because people are people, there are some characteristics we all share.
Men over 50 want relationships to be easy. Don't expect it from her and then not expect to do the same, as she must be willing to get past yours as well. Men have their own idea about what is sexy, beautiful and attractive. He's A Kind Man, But Not A Pushover There are overly-aggressive men, who try to position themselves above everybody else. Is she also tenderhearted toward others, wanting to help and serve others when she sees a need? He's Brilliant, But Not Cocky — Well, A Little Bit Cocky, But Not Too Cocky If you found yourself an intelligent, wise and sharp man, then he may be a keeper.
If you let people walk all over you then you are not respecting yourself and this is a turn off for women. You are always deserving of love. It's the way she thinks, the things she does, how she does them. So he must be sure to be developing godly character himself. This list can be used as a great starting point but only you are able to determine the particulars and unique elements that work for you.