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Unfortunately, there's no telling what her personality will be like or whether you have anything at all in common. But there may someday be a person who makes the issue of timing irrelevant. By staying positive and being honest with yourself and others, handling rejection can be far less intimidating. Make an effort to truly listen to the other person. Nobody gets 100%; you get the 60 or 70 or even 80% and you round it up to 100 because what you do get is so very worth it. You will never find the right person while focusing on the wrong one. There are lots of people out there, and many of them may be right for you.
If you want to date club girls, you have to be part of club culture. ~ Doc Childre and Sara Paddison Finding love is like finding shoes. There's more to a woman than just her beauty. Maximize Your Opportunities The first part of trying to find the right woman for you is to quit leaving it up to fate. Ask for them to come into your life.
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