Fourth, m any women that we have interviewed through the years have actually expressed surprise at how good it feels when a man climaxes during oral sex, saying that the taste and good feelings are a far cry from what they would have ever imagined. As for the culture of India, there are several interesting articles that have been written, including this in the. And since one of the fears women sometimes express about oral sex comes from wondering if she will gag on the semen, it is important to note that since most older men tend to ejaculate less than in their younger days, that worry is nil, whethe r you choose to swallow or discreetly use a tissue after helping him feel like King Stud. If you like it, there are many ways to swallow. If we decide to try intercourse at some point, that's great.
First of all, you should never be pushed into doing anything you simply don't want to do, especially if you feel it is distasteful or against your beliefs. Why does there have to be such an emphasis on oral sex? These articles discuss some of the taboos and misconceptions about sex, oral and otherwise, especially in relation to the women of your country. In her book, Men in Love - Men's Sexual Fantasies: The Triumph of Love over Rage , Nancy Friday claims that swallowing semen is very high on a man's intimacy scale. If you decide not to swallow, there's certainly no reason why you can't keep a tissue handy. He seems to be an understanding and tender lover, from your description, so he may be very enthusiastic about trying something new. We are happy that it turned out well for you and your husband. Basically any position lying, sitting, standing, kneeling, on all fours, spread-eagled that gives a sex partner access to a lover's genital area is suitable.
Concerning oral sex, only during recent decades has it become more prevalent. Choosing to ignore the oral options for foreplay and sex tends to reduce your options for sexual fulfillment and often becomes the reason to quit trying to have sex altogether. Oral sex on a woman can also be accompanied by digital vaginal penetration with a lubricated finger or sex toy. Many males enjoy this as foreplay before sexual intercourse, or it may also be performed until orgasm and ejaculation of semen. There are so many things that you both of you can do orally, especially as the man moves from soft to hard and points in-between, as long as neither of you gets in a rush. Without any hesitation, Ryan dove right in to her pussy, tongue first, as though he were in a race all his own. Frankly, I don't know if any of my women friends have ever done it orally, either, since we really don't talk about things like that.
A man might forget where he parks or where he lives, but he never forgets oral sex, no matter how bad it is. Or perhaps it is simply more accepted and open. Generally, it is best to begin slower and more gently on the labia and entire genital area. Is it really that common among people our age? If we do mutual or side-by-side self pleasuring, that's great, too. This is especially true of younger men, but a growing number of older men are deciding to join the groomers, trimmers and smoothies. Our research and numerous other studies show that today a majority of sexually-active people enjoy oral sex. Wanna be with an older woman, aka a Cougar? If we do it orally, that's great.
Then you need to get into the mindset of a Cougar. Now, as to your main question. I've grown to like it, too, but I have a question that would embarrass the heck out of me if I was asking in personl Both he and I are usually careful about having sex, especially doing each other orally, unless we've taken a bath or shower. I've from a Native American background, and I don't think I've ever heard of it being part of our culture, but I could be wrong, since my family was pretty closed mouth about the whole process. Jeoffrey and Renée: First, thank you for your very interesting story. Simply put, it means oral stimulation of the penis using the mouth, lips, tongue or throat. That might lead to a discussion.
Third, as you get older and experience bodily challenges aching knees, bad backs, arthritic shoulders, etc. I've done some research, but haven't been able to find anything that points to how bad oral sex can be, especially when I do her with my tongue. Is this a problem, or is it simply something that I shouldn't worry about until it happens. I hope it is okay, since I like doing it, and he really seems to get off when I do. I love the taste when he goes off in my mouth, and it is a real turn on! My young wife of 73, to whom I've been married for five years, is not quite so sure. The clitoris is the most sexually sensitive erogenous zone for most women, so stimulation in this area often produces the most effective erotic sensations and sexual excitement , but all the areas surrounding the clitoris and vagina can become highly aroused through oral sex. You would think growing up in my nation known for the very sexual book, T he Kama Sutra , famous everywhere around the world, that our culture would be more open about such things.
What do I say if he wants to do it spontaneously, especially like in the morning, when we haven't cleaned ourselves properly? And how do you suggest that I broach the subject with this very special 75-year-old man of my desire to experience oral sex with him, both giving and receiving? In the United States, the well-respected Center for Disease Control and Prevention have shown very similar results. Sometimes we go back and forth, from one thing to the other. Even that method can be seen as romantic to the man if you make murmuring noises of pleasure that are genuine and loving. Click the bell to get notified when I'll be on next - see you there! I've tried it before, and I don't like it. Has anyone else ever asked you this question? Also, when people use the term 69 when talking about oral sex, what does that mean? We don't really talk about sex that much. Your husband of a half-century must be a happy man, and many men would be green with envy if they knew what the two of you are experiencing as lovers, oral and otherwise. First, senior sex in any form is wonderful, and many say it is actually more fulfilling as you get older.
There are no set rules, and certainly no wrong or right method of swallowing or not swallowing. Of course, regardless of age or background, personal hygiene is important for any type of oral sex. We have enjoyed 45 years of marriage and have a wonderful family. Anyway, I have a rather personal question that I wouldn't dare ask anyone that I know. She teases him with her wet and wild body and even asks him over to oil her up. It's not harmful to me, is it, health-wise? You grew up in a culture of arranged marriages that is still quite widespread in many places around the globe.